Dominic Michael on Instagram: "You didn’t stay because you were confused. You stayed because letting go felt like admitting the truth: They were never in the same relationship you thought you were building. Confusion is active. Confusion feels productive. Confusion lets you replay the conversations, reread the messages, check the profile, search for signs, ask your friends, analyze the silence… Because as long as you’re confused, you don’t have to grieve. And grief? Grief feels like surrender. G